Happy Valentines Day!!!
If you’ve been seeing someone for a while but don’t know whether he/she is the one, you aren’t alone. Many people go through the same thing. Have a look at this article to see if your partner displays any or all of these signs.
- The restaurant test – This test has many names but let’s stick to restaurant test for this article. When you’re at a restaurant or bar, pay close attention to your partner. Is he/she scoping the area the find out who else is there or who might see the two of you together? If this is true, you need to introspect to decide if this person is for you. Your partner and you should be content with each other and maybe, want everyone to notice that they’re with such a cool person.
- You aren’t held back – Your partner should feel excited and happy when you experience success in your life. There are plenty of unhealthy relationships in which a partner sabotages the other. If your partner is happy with their life, then they can be happy for you as well as with you.
- Other parts of your life fit together – Close your eyes and imagine your partner in the other aspects of your life other than your relationship. See if they would get along with your friends and your family. Probe further and ask yourself if you both have things that you enjoy doing together which are sustainable in a relationship. If you’ve answered yes to these two questions, you’ve got a keeper.
There are plenty of other signs which will tell you if your partner is right for you. It’s not a decision that you can make overnight. Take your time with this decision because it will impact the rest of your life.