Women are made out to be complicated beings quite often, difficult to understand. They are not really. They too have particular basic needs that need to be met, just like men. Women desire nothing more than love and affection. They want to feel secure and protected. If you see a woman being controlling, don’t misunderstand her and think she always wants things her way. She doesn’t. All she wants is somebody who can assure her that they can relax; she will be taken care of. For decades now, people have mystified a woman’s needs. It’s no mystery. She wants to be understood and cared for.
When you marry a woman, you must ensure that you can cater to some of her primary needs for the marriage to be successful. If her husband is detached, she is bound to feel insecure. In order to make her feel loved, the husband must communicate with her openly and not be preoccupied with his own needs. Women are very sensitive, compassionate and intuitive. If something is troubling their man, they will know instinctively. They will expect their husband to have enough confidence to confide in them. It is only natural for them to feel neglected if he doesn’t.
Women have been brought up to seek validation. The need for validation is so much a part of them that they may feel dejected if their husband or significant other doesn’t compliment or praise them from time to time. Men haven’t been raised this way. So, they can find it difficult to understand women’s needs sometimes. However, they must put in an effort to see things from her perspective. Only then will he understand how important it is for a woman to feel safe, admired and sought out. A woman’s needs are as basic as it can get.
I struggle with the other woman my husband looks at! He is constantly looking and getting new friends on Instagram that aren’t appropriate to me!! I feel that I have been replaced!! I don’t meet their body type I’m far from it!! I have mentioned that to him and it does no good I just continued!!